I sent alif to school this morning and i'm glad to note that he's doing fine. He seems eager to start d day and he was all smile when we left. Alhamdulillah.
I'm at home right now n was wondering about certain issues being raised by friends and some from my observation. Coming from a close knit family my dad has always been there for us esp during ctitical times when mom n us truly need d support from d most important man in our life. I dont remember going for my 1st day of school without him. He was there since my standard 1 till as long as i cud remember but of course i told him to drop n go as soon as i was in secondary school.
And so i'm puzzled to d trend n behaviour of certain parent nowdays! I cant grasp d idea of some who truly leave everything to d wife n have d care less attitude towards their own child!! Some even went missing on holidays on d kids first day at school!!! It's sickening to think how selfish some can be...and u call urself a mother n father??
If i was put in d kids situation i wud probably grew up hating them n not surprised if on Hari Raya i wud take my family on holiday instead of balik kampung!!! Well heyyy god is great what goes around do come around. When u r old n lonely..see who will come running to ur rescue!!! Ur son or dotter wud probably say they're too busy to come n visit or worst still too busy to even take u to d hospital and what's worst is..they cud probably be on holiday when ur on ur death bed!!!
God forbid me for being cruel on writing this entry but i am full of hatred to these unconcious minded people!!! I am by far the perfect mom but i am 100percent sure my kids r well taken care off because I CHOOSE to do it. A good friend always said this to me 'anak2 itu amanah daripada Allah' n what have u done for this amanah??? Do u think it's enough to dump ur 'amanah' for d bibik to care for or for ur mom to look after? N u hope when ur 'amanah' is all grown up they will care for u??
Think again my friend as to why ur children refused to obey u n cant wait to grow up n leave d house! U may not feel d pinch now but 'nauzubillah' pray that it wont happened to u!! I'm all bitter at d moment. I just do not understand how some of us out there can be so COLD heart n soul!!! We all claimed we love our children...but did we really??? Have we done
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