Saturday, August 15, 2009

Stop Whining!!!


Do u notice??? Some people spend MOST of their life complaining!!! I’ve heard it way too many times to ignore. They will start their day grumbling about the traffics on the way to work, upon reaching work they will again accused of too much work which btw is just part of their job ( despite nothing to do) they go for lunch and again dissatisfied about the food, come back to the office more grumpy and stress (for spending too much time on the internet or FB) wait till it’s 5.30..pack their things leave the office and again not happy with the traffic. Go back home got nothing to do whining bout nothing interesting on TV!!! Day in day out the same old story!!! Before the month ends again grouch about the salary that is never enough (despite doing basically nothing at work) and then started blaming others on their ‘nasib’. Well does it sound like anyone of us??? Yup it sounds pretty much like us. Maybe if in a day we stop to complained and be thankful and grateful for what we have god will actually take notice!!! Yes my dear friends be positive and perhaps that luck of yours might just change.

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Money problem??? Who doesn’t face them?? Even the richest of men will still have not enough money and everything else that they spend their entire life working their a** for it!!! So if for once u think that $$$ will actually bring u more happiness in life..think again!!! I am one of those people in the category above but I realised it brings me no good..so I stop feeling stressed about EVERYTHING in life. Yes there are certain things worth dwelling upon but some are just a waste of time and energy. Would I care to spend my time thinking and bit**ing about the not so perfect friend??? I think NOT. I will not spare even the tiniest energy in my body to be bothered about that melancholic depressive person!! And will I be so upset knowing my neighbour just bought the mini cooper that I dreamt of for so long (and she looks HOT driving it) well..that is something I might ponder on…hahaha!!! BUT not enough to make me feel inadequate about myself.

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So here’s to something more positive and worthwhile. The next time u feel dissatisfied about everything and anything please look at those not so privileged. Those people who would die to be in ur shoes, to have ur job, ur home, ur health and ur family. Those people who is thankful to Allah for every single breath in their body, or even a single scoop of rice or bread anyone could offer. Be thankful for who u are no matter how bad u think ur situation is for only god knows what is best for us and STOP WHINING!!!





9 comments:

eynda said...

Eynda suka entry ni....memang ada setengah org cam tu..tanpa diaorg sedari...eynda pun kekadang cam tu gak tapi belum kronik haha...

lady of leisure said...

hi amelia :)
i totally agree dgn you. some ppl yg suka complaint about everything ni maybe diorang tak grateful with what they have. ppl like this actually bring on negative energy to us positive ppl. kan?

MN said...

i pernah baca, if you are looking things outside yourself to make you happy, you will never be truly happy.

so instead, find things that are inside of you that makes you happy e.g. i am happy that i am healthy. then,insyaAllah.

just my 2 cents. :)

Amelia Khalik said...

eynda..yeah i pun kekadang terlebih complain TAPI takder lah sampai 24 jam ajer hangin kan..kekeke

Lady yes so true they will bring negative vibes n energy in our life..tak semena2 bila asik dgr depa complain kita pun jadi MS GRUMPY!!! kekeke

MN maybe they all kena amik yoga class kot takpun kena buat soul searching hehehehe...

Lybeau said...

totally agree...what can I say???

yeah I've heard that... to be honest.... me too like to whinge... but ...not like 24/7... I only whinge mostly about my bods!!! and the cold weather... ha ha...

I'm just human with the least perfection... but all and all ...life is still good....

Amelia Khalik said...

Lybeau whining bout ur body parts or weight doesnt count!!!!hahahaha..cos i did it most of d time. No lah sis..sikit2 takper lah ini sampai nak tido pun nak complain susah lah kan..ekekeke

eynda said...

Haaa...eynda pernah komplen 2-3 minggu lepas pasal takleh tido...gara-gara hannah berjaga 3-4 jam tengah malam & dengan eynda sekali dia paksa sengkang mata hahaha....terpaksa komplen la...simpan sorang2 nanti meletup body ai :-p

Amelia Khalik said...

Eynda itu pun sekali sekala kan..tak di kira!!!! kekeke..yg tak tahan is ppl yg 24 jam semua tak kena!! hahaha

eynda said...

Kalau 24 jam asyik semua tak kena, maknanyer kat dia pun memang ada yg tak kena la haha....jangan la kita jadi cam tu....nanti org takut nak berkawan dgn kita pulak :-p